We've all received emails from people on Myspace or other online dating websites that ask the simple and straightforward questions...
"Are you really how you state on your profile?"
I have been getting more and more of these emails from my women talk radio show subscribers that constantly complain about getting emails from guys like this. These women get offended and pissed off, and I know many women that have responded just like this to me!
In all honestly you shouldn't. Because you, not the people responding to you are putting that doubt, leeriness, misconception, and too-good-to-be-true thinking in their little heads. This is honestly one of the first things I ask a lot of times online; I have been burnt royally many times by dishonest and twisted women that are pathological liars
Many web sites, especially Myspace, make it so this doesn't ever have to be the case. You can do so many things to assure people that you really look the way your pictures are presented, and the way you really think and act is really the God's honest truth
Over the last 2 ½ years I have been on more online dating sites than anyone in the world researching on over 35 different online dating and social networking sites. I have compiled a list of the 7 things you can do on Myspace or on other online dating sites to prove you're real.
Some dating sites don't allow you to do some of things I suggest, so the lion's share of this list is targeted specifically for Myspace profiles
Have some non-professional pictures of yourself doing activities you love, pictures of your family, friends, or pets on your main pictures area. First off, I need to clarify this point: you definitely should have professional pictures of yourself online!
I feel if you're serious about marketing yourself online to find cool new people to hang out with or get to know, then you always want to put your best foot forward and look your best
But that's how it is and always will be I imagine. It's been that way since the caveman days, and it hasn't changed a whole lot since then! They have even proven scientifically that people actually think better looking people are generally smarter than people that aren't as physically attractive!
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